Fear vs. Faith-Based Parenting
Today our 10-year-old boys (twins) rode their bikes to school by themselves for the first time ever. That might sound insignificant to you, but in our house it was a huge milestone. We chose to trust our good God, our parenting, and our children. In short, we chose faith over fear. Fear vs.…
The Importance of Culture in Family Worship
When I first learned about family worship— the practice of reading the Word, praying, and singing with my family at home— I was eager to get into the habit. In chapter five of his great little book on family worship, Donald Whitney asks a compelling question— “Isn’t this what you…
Fierce Trust Leads to Fierce Love
“You can take care of him because I’m taking care of you.” This statement has recently become a common reminder in our home. My son is constantly trying to hoard his stuff away or show he is the best or the fastest. He wants to be in control— he wants to prove he’s worthy— and he doesn’t want his…
Teaching Kids to Trust
“Mom and dad, I need to talk to you about something.” Beautiful words. They could also be frightening words for parents to hear. Yet they are priceless words because they communicate that our child trusts us enough to share what is on their heart. And such is parenting. Parenting consists of…
3 Reasons to Sing in Our Homes
One reason many of us are intimidated by the idea of family worship is that many of us don’t think of ourselves as worship leaders. Our idea of a worship leader is the person leading the music at church on Sunday mornings. But the truth is that all parents are worship leaders. We’re all…
Bible Reading Guide for Holy Week
For the better part of the past year, our family has enjoyed being a part of a small home church gathering. We continue to marvel at all God is doing in our family and in the families of those involved. Yesterday we celebrated Palm Sunday and one of the men from our group felt led to write a Bible…
Creating Homes Where Our Children Truly Belong
“I don’t belong anywhere.” “No one cares about me.” “I can’t trust anyone.” “I’m not valuable.” As a therapist, I hear statements like these from young people all the time. Teenagers and young adults feel alone, isolated, and detached in what appears to be the most connected generation ever. These…
Please Talk with Your Kids About Sex
I have three teenagers at home, and l just want to start out by saying that I can’t offer you a magic conversation or a 3-step guaranteed process for your kids to grow up with a healthy and biblical view of sexuality. My husband and I are learning as we stumble along. I’m certain my kids don’t…
7 Ways to Change Up Communication with Your Kids
Our primary job as parents is to disciple our children— to help them see that they’re sinners in need of a Savior, to introduce them to Jesus, to teach them about Him, and to show them what it looks like to follow Him. We need to communicate clearly with our children if we’re to fulfill this…
4 Helpful Tips in Teaching Young Children to Communicate
When my youngest was two, he annoyed his older brother continually by taking his toy and running away. My oldest would chase him, screaming and angry, trying to get back what belonged to him. Can anyone relate? My younger son simply wanted to play with his big brother, but he didn’t know how to ask…